I get that honestly, it was pretty overwhelming. And, yes, that was the general assumption about I mean all of us honestly. It was a conclusion that came from what i was, not anythin g I did But what I did could be used to feed into it, if i wasn't careful.
No, I get it, you're right Including that that's the point. or at least part of it
[And this is... the hard part.]
If I think I might have done something wrong, wehther i think the other person thinks that or not, the way it always feels, because it's how it's always been is that If I apologize and didn't need to, maybe it'll annoy them, right/ And I don't want to annoy people But the consequences if I didni't say I was sorry and it turned out someone thought i shoudl have been soryr were always a lot worse It's like a reflex or at least habit. a signla that I "know" I made a mistkae, and I' msorry whether they think I should be or not I'd rather be sort of annoyin g and over-cautious than "Difficult". That turns into "out of control" really fast and I could never afford to be taht
Anyway again none of that chagnes how it came across to you Which I own't apologize forunless you ask me to.
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And, yes, that was the general assumption about
I mean all of us honestly. It was a conclusion that came from what i was, not anythin g I did
But what I did could be used to feed into it, if i wasn't careful.
No, I get it, you're right
Including that that's the point. or at least part of it
[And this is... the hard part.]
If I think I might have done something wrong, wehther i think the other person thinks that or not, the way it always feels, because it's how it's always been is that
If I apologize and didn't need to, maybe it'll annoy them, right/ And I don't want to annoy people
But the consequences if I didni't say I was sorry and it turned out someone thought i shoudl have been soryr were always a lot worse
It's like a reflex or at least habit. a signla that I "know" I made a mistkae, and I' msorry whether they think I should be or not
I'd rather be sort of annoyin g and over-cautious than
"Difficult". That turns into "out of control" really fast and I could never afford to be taht
Anyway again none of that chagnes how it came across to you
Which I own't apologize forunless you ask me to.