In a way. Foudre was the first so she believes she is in charge. It is also the nature of her type as I understand it. It is also the nature of Bet's type to be a bit more pushy so they clash. At least Sninguv is more willing to follow along.

[Otherwise there would be three who wanted to be in charge]

I'm sure I will at some point.

[Primdes and Vethri were definitely rather close, but they were still on the younger side.

Bet perched on the floor, replying to Radley in greeting before chatting with Harley]

It is a bit tight and he can no longer use his tree as easily, but we manage.