[haha what. No, but, seriously, what the fuck? Dave previously described Dirk as "a way less shitty bro" offhandedly to John, and he's super not seeing that right now. Like, he always thought Dave's Bro was a lame weirdo but apparently he also sucked, and that's what John's seeing right now, right here. John is tired, depressed, and he really wanted to just move on from all this but it looks like he has to keep dealing with bullshit. It figures.]
actually i think the thing you haven't considered here is that you're wrong. if being an ultimate self is about losing all the boundaries between you and the other yous then this jane is just as valid as any other jane. treating her like a fake version seems like a personal problem you are having to me!
you obviously think you are being really logical here but it doesn't seem like that from where i'm standing. it mostly seems like you are feeling sorry for yourself about a bunch of bad situations you put yourself in to.
so as it turns out i really don't want to help you unless you get over yourself because i don't actually trust you to not be doing this for some sort of fucked up self-flagellation reason. and that seems like a bad reason for me to start following your instructions.
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actually i think the thing you haven't considered here is that you're wrong. if being an ultimate self is about losing all the boundaries between you and the other yous then this jane is just as valid as any other jane. treating her like a fake version seems like a personal problem you are having to me!
you obviously think you are being really logical here but it doesn't seem like that from where i'm standing. it mostly seems like you are feeling sorry for yourself about a bunch of bad situations you put yourself in to.
so as it turns out i really don't want to help you unless you get over yourself because i don't actually trust you to not be doing this for some sort of fucked up self-flagellation reason. and that seems like a bad reason for me to start following your instructions.