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ଘ(੭*ˊᵕˋ)੭* Angel ([personal profile] brokencode) wrote in [community profile] victory_road2018-02-18 02:27 pm

ECHO: A desperate plea

[Like many of her posts in recent months, Angel's is quick and to the point. This time, however, she seems to at least have dropped the emotionless facade. More than anything, she looks tired, though it's now mixed with at least one part concern and two parts hurt.]

What can cause a pokemon to abruptly stop listening to you? I have always been close with my creatures, but now... it feels like something has changed.

Do they understand apologies? Or... do I have to prove myself anew?
notmyrealname: (☀22)

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[personal profile] notmyrealname 2018-02-18 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)
What do you mean 'abruptly stop listening'? Are they just ignoring you or not listening to commands in battle?

[Please excuse her worried look but Angel, darling, you look terrible.]
toxicodendron_isley: (Bored)

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[personal profile] toxicodendron_isley 2018-02-19 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
I've heard some may stop listening if they've gaining a significant amount of strength.
notmyrealname: (☀27)

[personal profile] notmyrealname 2018-02-19 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
Has it been awhile since you had them out? Or spent time with them?

[The last time they spoke Angel had mentioned that things had been a little hectic so maybe her Pokemon were just feeling a bit out of sorts because of it?]

I'm sure it's something that can be easily worked out.
notvaljean: (that makes exactly zero sense)

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[personal profile] notvaljean 2018-02-19 11:20 am (UTC)(link)
[Jean hems and haws over answering this, especially since he left that mortifying message in her inbox on Valentines. But this is about Pokemon, and maybe he can just play it cool and make it all about that? Yeah, that's what he'll do.]

Which ones aren't listening?
haveyouseenalittlegirl: (Searching the darkness)

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[personal profile] haveyouseenalittlegirl 2018-02-19 01:25 pm (UTC)(link)
[That sounds like dealing with kids. Harry's had Cheryl/Heather give him the silent treatment at various points of her lives.]

I'm pretty sure they can understand apologies. It would probably be best to figure out if there is a reason they're ignoring you first. If something specific happened or if they're upset with you for some reason.

[Harry's seen a few of Heather's pokemon refuse to listen to her, but that had generally been because one liked to sulk when it wasn't the center of attention and another was not taking her to do something bad.]

Did anything change since they were last listening to you? Either to them, or just in your life in general?
thedifferencebetween: (oh my god you're for real?)

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[personal profile] thedifferencebetween 2018-02-19 03:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh yeah, that kinda thing happens. Even ones you hatched yourself, they get tough enough or evolve or whatever and they can stop listening or start getting rebellious. I've had it happen with a few of mine, it's a pain in the ass.

Plus...yeah, they're not like animals that understand things totally differently. Most of'em can think just like us, so all kinds of shit upsets them. Like I got a new puppy for Christmas, now D.B's being a complete asshole who won't listen to a thing I say. He'll get over it eventually, so will yours.

It'll be fine. You worry too much about way too many things, princess. Obviously it's keeping you from getting enough sleep. Where are you, anyway?
toxicodendron_isley: (Whole lot of stupid going on down there)

[personal profile] toxicodendron_isley 2018-02-19 09:19 pm (UTC)(link)
That doesn't necessarily mean they won't through a period of non compliance. Attitudes and behaviors can change as they grow.

Well, when did this start?
notvaljean: (your integrity is questionable)

[personal profile] notvaljean 2018-02-20 11:46 am (UTC)(link)
[If they can just talk about Pokemon for awhile, instead of Jean's idiot confession, then maybe they'll be able to get through this. Jean is fine with pretending it never happened.]

[Valentine's confessions: not even once.
]

Huh. That's odd. Did anything happen to make them be weird?
foolishwren: The walls are coated in human skin and stuff's starting to move under it, LET'S JUST LEAVE. (... You know what?)

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[personal profile] foolishwren 2018-02-20 07:40 pm (UTC)(link)
A... few different things.

The most obvious one is if you got them from someone else and they leveled out of your badge range, but... sounds like this was something else, huh?

[If so... yep. Heather's been there. :T Not fun.]
2hellwiththe1stlaw: (meh)

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[personal profile] 2hellwiththe1stlaw 2018-02-21 04:17 am (UTC)(link)
Have you tried asking them why they're acting like jerks all the sudden?
2hellwiththe1stlaw: (pout sad)

[personal profile] 2hellwiththe1stlaw 2018-02-21 05:55 am (UTC)(link)
Alright, that's fair. And also thank you, you're one of my closest friends too obviously.

In that case, when was the first time you remember them suddenly ignoring you and not doing what you asked?
haveyouseenalittlegirl: (We found a baby!)

[personal profile] haveyouseenalittlegirl 2018-02-21 01:06 pm (UTC)(link)
It depends on what it was. But it's possible.

[He doesn't like how worried she looks.]

But I've always found most pokemon to be understanding creatures. Especially if they've been close to you in the past. If they're upset for some reason now...well talking I find helps, and if an apology is needed, I really think they'd listen.
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[personal profile] styxiedust 2018-02-21 09:20 pm (UTC)(link)
[Hum. This is unusual. Krieg said Angel was "fine" but things seem very much not fine here.]

Dear, would it help if I tried speaking to them for you?
notmyrealname: (☀35)

[personal profile] notmyrealname 2018-02-21 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)
[An understanding look touched Cissnei's face.]

Maybe they feel hurt by that or like they did something wrong and that's why you put them away like you did. It may just take time to help them understand that you didn't mean any harm by what you did. Just be patient with them and do what you can to let them know that you still care deeply about them. Pokemon can be a lot like stubborn children when they want to be, after all.
thedifferencebetween: (oh my god you're for real?)

[personal profile] thedifferencebetween 2018-02-22 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
He'll live. But he'd love it if you visited more often.

Of course I'm going to worry, it's what dads do! I always worry about you, Angel.
toxicodendron_isley: (Plants where?)

[personal profile] toxicodendron_isley 2018-02-23 06:33 am (UTC)(link)
Ah, now that makes sense. Perhaps you should have made time to take them out during your visit and just spend a moment with them?
foolishwren: [muffled mariachi music in the distance] (Only I can do this.)

[personal profile] foolishwren 2018-02-24 08:18 am (UTC)(link)
Mm, no, yeah, it's usually not...

[She's not about to awkwardly exit out of the conversation to go listen to the other ones on the post-- but she can definitely tell Angel about her own experience with the matter.]

... At one point, my Togekiss stopped listening to me.

Technically, she never needed to to begin with, I inherited her and she was way out of my badge range, but she was just extremely good-tempered so she pretty much followed my instructions anyway...

But I did something that really destroyed her faith in me.

And she stopped obeying completely after that-- still treated me fine, but I was in the freaking dog house.

Felt real bad.