text: Purposefully anonymous, but woooo boy

[zukeini]

I'm wondering if other people are good at coming with answers on this because I'm kinda not. I'm really not, actually.

But what should you do if you catch "feelings" for someone. Who you know is in a relationship with someone else, but you also think you have "feelings" for that person too? And another person? You think you do?

But like, also it's you realizing that this means you're not straight.

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[Anon text because he's a baby]

[speedweed]

Actually, I've been in this situation.

Other than faffing about trying to hide everything and hope it goes away, I merely ended up conversing with the both of them and figuring out where we all stood. It... ended up working out?

It's worth a try if you approach it honestly.

we all babies here

[zukeini]

Wow.


I'm real glad it worked out. Sounds like these are people that appreciated your honesty.

[speedweed]

I take it that you have no plans on letting either of them know? It'd at least be easier to move on if they say no than to continually pine the rest of your days, wouldn't it?

[zukeini]

I'm honestly not so sure anymore. Part of me feels it's right either way. In the end, I can't risk much. I mean, I really like these guys. They're still friends.