text: Purposefully anonymous, but woooo boy

[zukeini]

I'm wondering if other people are good at coming with answers on this because I'm kinda not. I'm really not, actually.

But what should you do if you catch "feelings" for someone. Who you know is in a relationship with someone else, but you also think you have "feelings" for that person too? And another person? You think you do?

But like, also it's you realizing that this means you're not straight.

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[forsaintcecilia]

Oh, that's not the problem. Like I said, lots of people, different directions. I guess I just don't have the courage to do anything about it.

[zukeini]

The courage I think is the next step. Seeing as I'm on here anon, haha.

I think coming to terms with how to feel about something first is key. I think I'm finally realizing that.

[forsaintcecilia]

Hey, I'm glad you did. I don't think I would have been able to talk to you about it otherwise.

What is "coming to terms" for you?

[zukeini]

Realizing I have feelings and not ignoring them. Not making excuses for those feelings.

Yeah, sounds right.

[forsaintcecilia]

Ah, okay. I think I get it. Because it's uncomfortable? Or... Because you're afraid of something?

[zukeini]

I mean, I think it’s both.

[forsaintcecilia]

Yeah, I know. That makes sense.

Well, if you talk to this person, I wish you luck. You seem like a really nice, thoughtful guy, so you've got a shot in that regard at least!