dated after prom | network (un: anonymous)

[dejabrewed]

[ he's got feelings and he doesn't know what they are!!! it's a crush but this is his first one.

so in true sandalphon fashion, he asks the network. but this time as an anon. he doesn't need this traced back to him! and to that effect, he's going to try and type like everyone else. (or as much as he can, at least.) ]

hey so how do you know you have a crush on someone?

[ ...nailed it. ]

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[dejabrewed]

oh no this actually is a crush. ohhh no.

uh. hm. this is hard.

[shiningkindness]

Well that's okay! Do you think you'd be able to talk to the person you have a crush on?

[dejabrewed]

yeah, they asked me to come over soon and that's kind of why im getting really nervous. i wanna know if im actually right in this being a crush or am i just sick...

[shiningkindness]

Well are you feeling that way when you're not thinking of or talking with that person? Because if it's around other people then you might be sick.

But if it's only around that one person, then it might be a crush.

[dejabrewed]

well no, it's only when im around them! they make me all shy and worried and my heart beats really really fast...

[shiningkindness]

Hmm. That does kind of sound like a crush then.

[dejabrewed]

so should i just confess to them???? or should i wait more??? i dont know what to do, romance is so out of my comfort zone???????

[shiningkindness]

Well um. If you feel comfortable confessing, then you could do that? But you don't have to if you don't think you're ready.

It also might help to talk to the person you have a crush on. You might have a better idea of what you want to do while you're talking with them.

[dejabrewed]

i... i guess that makes sense. but won't it be seen as weird if i confess out of the blue? wouldn't it be easier to let things play out and hope for the best?

[shiningkindness]

Well like I said, whatever you're comfortable with. If you think it'd be too weird to confess later, then you should do what you feel is best for the both of you.

[dejabrewed]

what's the best for both of us, huh...

that's kinda hard though, since they kissed me at prom and all.

[shiningkindness]

Oh.
Well I suppose in that case they already confessed to you huh?
So if you return their feelings and are okay with being in a relationship with them, then why not?